#Triangulation, is where your Narc/Sociopath,will create an aura of desirability, of being wanted by the opposite sex, be it friends, former lovers and your eventual replacement,"what took you so fooking long, ha!"
And of course you want to be the preferred object of their attention so, this sees you trying to win them away from their crowd of admirers, thing is there really is no fooking admirers just a trial of destruction in their wake, and it is all a ploy to raise their perceived value! #Delusional
When Captain C first got together with me, he himself was fresh out of a relationship, in fact he was engaged to be married, and no I did not pursue him, he was advertising himself as available on a dating website.
I think it was about 6 weeks in and boom! history repeating itself, he pops the question "I would like to marry you" of course I was a little flattered, who wouldn't be!,but when I look back it was about 6 weeks in when Agent of Chaos popped the question to me as well!
My head was not really in the right place for making life changing decisions as such, so I will digress, you know I mentioned at the beginning of my post, about triangulation. Well when I hummed and ha'd, about getting engaged he quickly, mentioned something about opportunity having a shelf life and the woman, he had been previously engaged to was, still baying for his affection! #triangulation.
I know what is it, with Narc Sociopaths, and getting married all the fooking time?
Well of course it's all about the control isn't it! and that's because they are so externally out of control of their own life, they have to control their inner environment, which means confining you to a marriage, where you will be completely monitored, suppressed,and controlled, but he of course, will be allowed a free rein to to whatever he wants, and if you fight back or resist in anyway you will be labelled a crazy Mofo! then comes the smear campaigns! just kill me now, why the fook was I signing up for more of this purgatory? Well I can answer that now! but back then I could not because I was still traumatised from the last 20 odd years with the other nutter!#Borderline Personality Disorder
So we get engaged, with my old engagement ring because it was a 5 carat diamond, and he wanted to run around telling everyone he had had bought it #grandiose or wot!
How did that situation come about you may ask! well he had helped me out with some bills and of course the supposed house move, and was offering me a roof over my head, so now I was in his debt that's how that came about but he quickly threw it back in my face, and started to complain about how it had all left him out of pocket, and scuppered his plans to buy me an engagement ring, and dear God we can't have that, the man's ego must be fed! that's the rules of the narc/sociopath didn't you know that well I fooking do now ha!
And of course, he had to post our engagement all over social media in everyone's face, stirring up trouble with his disgruntled ex girlfriend because by now he is even talking about the marriage ceremony, which he wanted to take place in Vegas, and apparently that's where he was marrying her, which brings me to my next subject #social media, because technology makes it so easy for Narcs/sociopaths to manipulate, and abuse, through triangulation because everything they say appears to be unintentional but make no mistake its all calculated and done to get a rise in new or old targets.
The thing is they want you to confront them about these posts they put up and I'm telling you he put up some fooking crazy posts! because at the end of the day, complaining about a FB post is very child like and immature but that's exactly how they want you to feel CRAZY!
I'm not sure if I attract Crazy or I make them that way: JOKER
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