Caroline Flack was guilty of abuse yes! abuse of herself to which she paid for with her life! did the CPS need to pursue her for domestic abuse Hell No! she was not a threat to the public, and by all accounts this was an isolated incident, there was no proof she was a serial abuser, only that she was a very troubled young woman, and that was apparent to any one with any emotional common sense!
"Yes but, we cant let this one slide because she is a public figure" this is what I'm reading on line, all over social media, and this is why I felt compelled to write about it, because it really boils my piss, even more infuriating, that its coming out of the mouths of people that would not know the first thing about living with domestic abuse!
Opinions eh! they are like ass-holes everyone has one, but if your not coming form a place of knowledge, then the only other fooking place is ignorance! don't be that person! the world needs more kinder, empathetic, educated people, not ones that are going to stand in judgement of the broken people..casting aspersions, and victim blaming!
I shall digress, to the matter in hand, the CPS ha!.. oh! me! what a joke now you know, if you have read my book I was victim of domestic abuse for over 20 years! so I spent a fair amount of time in the legal system 7 years to be precise, fook me, all that is missing is my law degree ha!
And when the end was in sight I mustered up the strength to bring charges against him not one fucking isolated incident, NO! the abuse was over a 20 year span lets get this straight! women or men that are being abused, more often that not do not report it, or want to even speak about it! I am not saying this is right but this it how it plays out! these are the facts! and lets get another thing straight we don't choose who we fall in love with! and more often than not, that is why we don't report it, What can I say i'm a realist! and don't jump up and down, and start screaming "I would I would," sit the fook back down, cause you don't know shit till your in that position, do you get me?
So In my case, the courts summoned my ex husband before them, as he had threatened to kill me, on numerous occasions (even documented in the press) and they placed him on bail but at the same time gave him back his passport, "I know, does not make sense,"so he could flee the country, to the UAE and of course to this day #Fugitive, he has never returned, to answer to any of the crimes committed against me and my children! and yes the CPS have since dropped the case! time barred I believe ha! So from where I'm standing all I see is a flawed legal system to which I have been saying for years, and because y'all have been letting victims of domestic abuse down for years y'all cant come in fooking mob handed, at the 13th hour, throwing people under the fooking bus! # Collateral damage "after death the doctor scenario, or to little to late! syndrome, and make fooking scapegoats out of vulnerable people for isolated incidents, just to shut the neigh Sayers down! "she's a celebrity don't let her off with it" I here them baying, for which was probably, just a drink fuelled argument that got out of hand something, many of us are guilty of, remember people are not infallible, its not a perfect world! ...and yes I am aware of your new law Coercive and controlling behaviour and I'm aware how you apply the law, which I know you want to be seen implementing! but for fuck sake apply it to the right cases, not to some poor woman, you want to make an example of, that was clearly in need of help not punishment!
And as I come to a close and give you my final thoughts OK facts on the matter! People that have been truly abused, do not want to see this! it is a big trigger and really upsetting, for we have been privy to heinous things!, we do not want to see more pain and suffering, this should not be an eye for an eye outcome, where people pay with their lives, we want resolve we want peace & healing, and for all involved to get the proper help! we certainly don't want to see one off isolated situations as such, defining a persons character! ............ But! as God is my witness, I tell you what we never ever ever want!, is people coerced in to killing themselves, how any one can think this is proper justice, needs their fooking head read!
Peace Out X
Peace Out X
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