FORUMS

I've been on a few forums in my time, one for divorce a few for domestic abuse and a couple for borderline personalty disorder and I have to say my experience on them was rather unhealthy!
I remember, and this is going back a fair few years with regards to the Divorce one, the woman that fooking ran the page annihilated me for using capital letters!  I mean WTAF! who even does that? you go onto these pages as your looking for some kind of answers but more often than not, you just leave pissed off well I did ha! anyway there were not a lot of people divorcing sociopaths so your a fooking minority from the get go aren't you!

Then there was one for domestic abuse, fooking hell, yet again, there was one particular woman who would comment on every bodies posts, and it really got on my tits, as she was not even an admin, and when I asked her about her back drop story, it turns out she had not really been abused at all, she just liked to know every bodies else's stories so she could emulate them and make them her own, I bet she's still on that page today years on never actually moving on with her life fooking unhealthy!
Then there are the BPD  forums don't get me wrong there are a few people on their that want to work on their recovery but for a lot of them they actually like having fooking BPD as it's an excuse for everything! Oh! I hate my self blame it on the BPD! Oh! I hate everyone blame it on the BPD My life is shit! Blame it on the BPD  I can't hold down a job, blame it on the BPD Nobody loves me! Blame it on the BPD  I do drugs blame it on the BPD! I self harm Blame it on the BPD!  I just tried to kill myself Blame it on the BPD! Yep I've heard every fooking excuse in the book, and that's all they are is excuses, I'm not being unkind, and of course you are allowed, a grace period AKA a time to heal but you can not go through your life making excuses and blaming all your short comings on your  fooking BPD sometimes it's just fooking life shit happens and you have to learn to roll with the punches, but then you pick yourself up dust yourself down and you get the fook on with it as Rocky said "It ain't about how hard you hit It's about how hard you get hit, and keep moving forward" that is just life my learned friends!

So If your seeking some kind of support or counsel from these forums think again! as there is a lot of stuck energy on them!, people that can not seem to get past their blockages,or their fooking egos, and of course that is never ever healthy, I mean why would it be, the internet is a cess-pit of fooking key board warriors, with a real conflict of interest, from the smart ass who, loves to put others down with their repertoire, the ones that sit on the fence with splinters in their ass firing passive aggressive remarks, and cryptic insults, AKA Conspiracy theorists, then you get the one uppers "My mental health is worse than your's" Then you have the know it all's who have counter argument's for everything you say, (they piss me off) as only a fool has to have the last word, "let the cunts!" then you have the hipsters and the hippies who hate everything and anything mainstream, and then of course grammar Nazis and last but not least the hypersensitive, who use these forums like they would a therapist, looking for attention from anyone and everyone! as they just want to keep talking and going over the same kind of issues all the time, and God forbid you offer any of them some kind of advice or resolve, cause that shit ain't happening, as they enjoy the victim status, and being stuck in the position they are currently in, because as soon as you do, they become a fooking Help rejecting complainer, you know what I'm speaking about someone who fooking loves being miserable, that can not and will not help themselves, even though they are always asking for help, a lot! and when you do offer it they don't want anyone helping them! that's not before you've fooking exhausted yourself in the process, by getting phone numbers, websites for organisations, and other kind of resources, then when you present them with this help, they fooking dismiss you!, what is that all about?, so for a lot of people I think therapy, one on one, is the way forward, and not dumping all your toxic waste on these forums as its not healthy and it's not really helping anyone logging on to something with lots of negative energy! Is it?

So I am going to lay out some tools that will help you if your stuck, ones that I acquired whilst training to be a Law of attraction Coach, you don't have to take them on board, but when I presented them to my therapist, she loved them, she said it was like the 12 step programme for alcoholics, so I must be on the right path to a happier more fore-filling life, and lets face it that's all anybody ever really wants isn't it? 

Abundance Blocks are limiting beliefs, that keep you trapped, they keep you from achieving your goals and your dreams, they manifest in self sabotage and mental negativity, have no fear though they can be worked through and you can overcome and accomplish anything you want! just start by illuminating the one's that are holding you back!.....

1. RESISTANCE TO CHANGE
2. DOUBT'S AND FEAR
3. THE FEAR OF CHANGE
4. CLEARING MONEY ZAPPING DECISIONS
5. FEAR OF GROWTH
6. FEAR OF SUCCESS
7. FEAR OF REJECTION
8. FEAR OF NUMBERS
9. CLEARING INDECISION
10.FEELING STUCK
11.GETTING CLEAR ON YOUR FUTURE
12.GETTING CLEAR ON YOUR VALUE
13 CLEAR YOUR CLUTTER
14.CLEARING FAMILY BLOCKS
15.CLEARING BLAME
16.DISCOVERING THE ULTIMATE YOU
17.GENERATING YOUR FUTURE SELF
18.TURNING BLOCKS INTO PROFIT
19.CLEARING SELF SABOTAGE
20.LACK OF SELF WORTH
21.CLEARING FINANCIAL MESSES
22.CLEARING FINANCIAL ILLUSION
23.CLEARING FEAR OF SCARCITY
24 CLEAR BLOCK TO WELCOME ABUNDANCE