"Projection"

What is projection? good question, well psychologically speaking it is a defence, mechanism,used to deflect unacceptable behaviour's found in ourselves, on to another person, people do this because rather than facing up to their failings as a human being, they find it far easier to discard, any such feelings, and look for the nearest fooking idiot to suck them up for them, a bit like a whipping boy! (a person who is blamed or punished for the faults of other's!

Now the reason I felt compelled to write about this is because it has been brought to my attention that some one I mentioned in one of my blogs, no names of course, has been writing cryptic messages on social media, to the tune of "Verity! stop projecting . Karma will still get the right person" ha!
Out of the mouth of my narcissistic, old school friend, remember I wrote about her bullying me throughout my school days and then into early adulthood and then if that was not bad enough she turned her attention to my daughter and filled her with fear!

I've obviously touched a fooking raw nerve with her! you see that's the thing with narcissists, they will always shift the blame to the victim and here she is doing it again un-fooking believable, rather than saying to herself yeah! "I was a complete fooking Cunt! please forgive me, I was abused as a child and it left me with all kind's of fooking demons floating about in my fooked up head!" she had to keep the projection game up, then as I said cryptically, try and throw it back at me! well love your shit just bounces right of me these days cause I see you for what you truly are, and I know I get under your skin cause you follow me on social media, and have of course morphed into me physically! the thing is you no longer fill me with dread or any kind of fear, because I know now it was you that always really feared me! that's why you were always so nasty to me! cause you were terrified I would let out all your dirty dark secrets, so you had to keep me down, and shut me down, all the time! well the tables have turned and by fook you don't like it! but that ain't my problem! and let's get one thing straight here I am completely unaffected by you! as you are a complete non entity in my life! what I wrote about was from year's ago, but was just finally putting it on paper, it did not mean there was any fuck's given, with regards to you! the difference between you and I is I've worked through my shit and I am indeed in a very good place in my life, I don't stalk people or try and emulate people, or wish karma on them! I let go of all that shit! but you will always remain in the same place you will never move on! because you are always going to blame other people for your shitty life! as it's far easier than taking any kind of responsibility! so I guess I do have a message for you I know you wont take it on board because narcissists never do! "Own your fooking shit and stop projecting your fooking failings on to other's" because we see through you and your fxcked up head games, and it has no power any more!

Rant over ha! seriously I had enough of that shit with Agent of Chaos, as you know like the woman in question, he had been sexually abused by his father, and he did exactly the same to me as she did, project all his shit at me, because I knew about all his dirty dark secrets, that he had never dealt with, and like a fool I took it, as my self esteem was very low, that and the fact you try to make allowances for people with such afflictions, because people that have been abused by their parents don't stop loving their parents, No! they stop loving themselves, and then of course, in my case these fookers projected all that pent of hatred for themselves on to me! Thank God, I no longer have these toxic people in my life, and I'm just merely, writing about them! you see we all vibrate at different levels, from shame to enlightenment, you must notice when you talk to people, what kind of energy they give off/vibration, because with some you just want to avoid them like the plague! and with the likes of this woman and Agent of Chaos they sit right right down on that chart with their fooking shame, as they have never sought the professional help they needed, as it was far easier to, as I've mentioned already, project it on to other's! and of course when I was around these certain individuals I would vibrate at about the same level! but because I have worked through all my shit, I now sit between acceptance and enlightenment, I mean we can't be happy happy all the time but I do give it a good go! because happiness is a lifestyle it is a choice! and I would far sooner be vibrating at the top of that chart that down with the fooking Narcs/Sociopaths, and this just lets ya' all see how far I've come with my healing! I don't, hate or despise these broken fxcked up people, (as I was once one of them!) that played a monumental part in infecting my life with their unresolved shit, nope, in my minds eye I stick a blue light around these fookers, and wish for them love and peace! but that does not mean, I ever want anything to do with them ever again, fook shit that! I'm not that insane ha!

Peace Out V.V     where do you sit on the chart???

ENLIGHTENMENT 
PEACE                       
JOY                             
LOVE                       
REASON                   
ACCEPTANCE         
WILLINGNESS         
NEUTRALITY         
COURAGE                     
PRIDE                       
ANGER                     
DESIRE                     
FEAR                         
GRIEF                         
APATHY                     
GUILT                         
SHAME