This is my second attempt to write this post as the first time I tried I some how managed to delete all my work # Mercury retrograde, your getting the blame anyway ha!
You know, I have been abused by two types of abusers, The Sociopath and the Narcissist, and I can tell you first hand that their type of abuse is very different!
OK, so they are both relatively, charismatic, I was going to say intelligent, but that's debatable lol!
selfish, unreliable, dishonest, and dangerous!
Always justified, and always deny! deny! deny! and therefore take no responsibility for their behaviour, both have an over inflated self image and a massive sense of entitlement!.
And although they give the impression they have the necessary emotional reactions this is just an illusion, ha! as they lack real empathy and real emotional responsiveness.
And for the record a sociopath can have narcissistic traits, but a narcissist can not be a sociopath!
right, so whats the key differences! well the sociopaths are far more cunning than the Narc, because they are not governed by their ego! in-fact they don't have a personality, and can take on any persona, they are the ultimate con artists, and because they are so chameleon like, its very hard to spot them! Even their aggression is more controlled, but with the Narc, they react a lot sooner with lies and intimidation..
The Narc will talk about himself, #ego, while the sociopath will get you to talk about you! so they can profile you!...
Both ignore social rules, but the Narc will do it out of lack of awareness, where as the sociopath does it to manipulate situations for his own ends.
The Narc is an idiot really, compared to the sociopath and is somewhat hapless and unaware of his aggravating effect he has on people, while the sociopath is very aware! #astute
With the Sociopath, its all about the winning, while the Narc just wants admiration!!
Sociopaths are stimuli junkies while the Narcs are relatively boring!
The Narc will berate and demean you whilst acting like the play ground bully where as the Sociopath will just take you down and clean out!because they are cunning and somewhat patient and play the long game while the Narc plays a short term game!
A Narc is more adaptable to working with others or for others, while the Sociopath is far more entrepreneurial, and will work for himself! where the rules are not very clear!..
So there we have folks a brief break down on the characteristics of both personalities, and as you can see Sociopaths are far more sophisticated abuser's compared to the hapless Narc's take it from one who knows!
Any way where was I ? Oh yeah Captain C was on the freaking war path, so What could he possibly do next to piss me off? Oh Yeah! He sent the boys in blue round, Ha! he told them that I had stole his Range Rover! so they came to caution me with theft! so in my defence I told them he actually had my vehicle, to which he would not return and that there was still finance on it, which I was responsible for, oh! and by the way I am actually married to this dumb fxck so therefore we are husband and wife! well of course that shone a whole different light on the matter then, because it was no longer criminal it was now a civil matter, and not a matter for the police! so they put away their handcuffs and fooked off WTAF! .. I was getting pretty pissed off my-self by now as you can imagine so I decided I would go round and try and, appeal at least to Captain C's father because it was becoming absurd all this, anti social behaviour.. So Off I goes and I pull up to his drive way, and who do I see but the nutter himself, and he starts yelling at me to "fuck off, you slut" "whore""skank" you name it he called me it.. then he came hurtling towards me and started to push me and with that I fell to the ground as he pushed me so hard, by this time I am somewhat upset and of course our voices are now raised, and that's when his cowardly father made an appearance and started to call me names to, I just could not believe it, then he turned to me and said "you better give my son his vehicle back, he is nothing to do with you! and wants nothing to do with you!" "really I said well in the eyes of the law we are in-fact married" and then he pipes up "no! your not that was just a fake wedding In Vegas it was not real! ha! ha! ha! Oh my fooking days! its dumb and dumber! who would of guessed! mind you they do say "An apple does not fall far from the tree It was history repeating itself just like with Agent of Chaos, there was not just one nutter in his family, there was a whole freaking tribe of them #Deliverance ha!....
So as you can imagine trying to get through to these two deranged fookers, was some what futile and therefore I had to retreat as trying to reason them them was like pissing in the wind ... So off I went a little bashed and bruised, but I was still very much alive, and therefore I will live to fight another day!
"Your Intuition suggests something isn't right, but your not sure what it is
It is not until the aftermath that you can clearly realise that true life can be
far more terrifying than a horror movie, that monsters are real and evil preys
on the innocent"
-Unkown
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